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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Reviewed 10/9/2023</strong></p>
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<h2>Bullying: Myth or fact?</h2>
<p>The effects of bullying don't end after grade school. Studies have shown that children who are bullied can grow up to be depressed or have low self-esteem. Can you separate the hard facts from the popular misconception about bullying?</p>
<p>Myth or fact: Bullying and fighting are basically the same. </p>
<p>Myth. Bullying involves repeated, aggressive behavior and an imbalance of power. It can be physical, verbal or social. It's not the same as fighting or a one-time conflict. When adults treat it as such, it sends the wrong message to children. Kids need to be taught that bullying is always wrong, and no one deserves it. </p>
<p>Myth or fact: It's generally better to let kids handle bullying on their own. </p>
<p>Myth. Bullying is a form of abuse, and kids shouldn't have to face it alone. Parents and other adults can and should help. Children who are bullied can have long-term mental health issues. If you suspect your child is being bullied, talk to him or her. Show your support. Kids may be embarrassed at first&mdash;reassure them that it's not their fault. </p>
<p>Myth or fact: Most kids know that bullying is wrong and want to stop it. </p>
<p>Fact. Most children don't think bullying is cool, and may want to help. So talk to your kids about bullying, and share ideas for dealing with bullies. Tell your child: Look a bully in the eye, be assertive, question a bully's bad behavior and don't be afraid to ask an adult for help. Encourage your child to be kind to other kids who are bullied. </p>
<p>Myth or fact: Bullies are usually male loners with poor social skills. </p>
<p>Myth. Both boys and girls can be bullies. While bullies are sometimes isolated or antisocial, they can also be popular and well-liked. Just because your child has many friends does not mean he or she can't be a bully. If you see abusive, dominating tendencies in your child, talk to him or her about why their actions or language are inappropriate. </p>
<p>Myth or fact: Talking to a teacher or principal should easily resolve a child's bullying problem. </p>
<p>Myth. Most bullying takes place when adults aren't looking. Even if adults are aware, they can't always prevent it. If your child is being bullied or is a bully, make a plan of action with his or her school counselor. Talk to school officials about how bullying is handled. Also consider finding a mental health professional to help your child. </p>
<p>Does your child seem sad and withdrawn? Are you concerned about his or her mental health? Help your child maintain a positive outlook. </p>
<p><a href="[BASEDOMAIN]/healthinfo/Topic.aspx?TopicID=48a10adb-98de-4255-8a12-096303638867">Learn how to help </a></p>
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<p><strong>Sources</strong></p>
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    <li>American Academy of Child &amp; Adolescent Psychiatry. "Bullying." <a target="_blank" href="https://www.aacap.org/aacap/fffprint/article_print.aspx?dn=Bullying-080">https://www.aacap.org/aacap/fffprint/article_print.aspx?dn=Bullying-080</a>. </li>
    <li>HealthyChildren.org. "Bullying: It&rsquo;s Not OK." <a target="_blank" href="https://www.healthychildren.org/English/safety-prevention/at-play/Pages/Bullying-Its-Not-Ok.aspx">https://www.healthychildren.org/English/safety-prevention/at-play/Pages/Bullying-Its-Not-Ok.aspx</a>. </li>
    <li>StopBullying.gov. "Resources." <a target="_blank" href="https://www.stopbullying.gov/resources/all">https://www.stopbullying.gov/resources/all</a>. </li>
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